Years ago, when I was in a tough relationship that wasn’t destined to last, I found myself Googling “How to know if you should end a relationship”. There was a thread on Reddit, and the top response was “If you’re asking this, you’re probably already there”. That stuck with me. With some examination, the questions I’m asking sometimes tell me more than the answers I receive.

I’ve found myself at times Googling “Books to change your life”. At the time, my emphasis was on the books. Now, I can see it should have been on the “change your life” part. I need(ed) to pay closer attention to when my mind was wandering in that direction.